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It is a well-known fact that there are a lot of people who start dance to meet people — with an eye towards dating. Does that mean that social dance is all about the sex? Is it all about finding romantic partners, either short or long term?

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Or is it something else? There are a lot of people who begin to dance after the end of a romantic relationship, looking to fill a void. There are girls who want to become sexier and learn how to move in a sensual way. But, these are rarely the serious dancers in the room. Same thing with free intro Kizomba classes and other sensual dances: the intro levels get an influx of people who are there for the jollies instead of the dance.

Dancing well is just too much work.

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They love their dance and treat it as an art — but social dancing is probably one of their only chances to actually meet people. Social dance floors are their place of work, their bar, their social hub, and their friendship incubator. Dance does make you more appealing to more people. A lot of dancers will only date someone else who dances which, ironically, narrows the dating pool.

You do get to go to sexy events and meet lots of attractive people. But really, I could go to a bar and get all the sex I want. Yet, I choose to go dancing. In the beginning, part of it was because I could connect with people without the expectation of giving my or going back to their place at the end of the night.

To me, what is unique about social dance is that it can be like a nightclub that is not all about the sex. Have you ever tried to explain social dancing to non-dance friends? Especially if you are a Latin dancer, it is hard to describe to non-dance friends that you can take a different partner every song, share minutes with each other, and then move on — no romantic feelings involved. Low to zero attraction usually. I also have a serious partner. He dances with other sometimes very physically attractive women, I dance with other sometimes very physically attractive men.

Plus, Brazilian Zouk is on the sensual end of the dance spectrum. Yet, neither of us — no matter how sensual the dance — end up in a situation where our romantic mind is confused. There are also children and teens who social dance. I wanted to dance because I love the arts. I love people. I did not start social dancing because I wanted more sex or more romantic partners.

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Most of my friends are in the same boat. Dancing well takes work. A lot of work. It takes drills, practice, lessons, time, energy, and a level of fitness. Plus, strong dancers generally love dancing with proficient dancers — regardless of physical appearance. For example, some people go to university. Your degree is the primary concern, but you might meet some great romantic partners during your time there. There may also be a small portion of the university population who decided to attend because they wanted to meet an educated partner. Sex and romance is part of the social dance world — but it is not the focus.

The focus is on the dancing and the people. Social dancing is NOT all about the sex, even though romance and attraction play a role within the scene.

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What do you think? Is social dance all about the sex? Leave your comments below. Well said, Laura. I tell them and my boyfriend too, who is not dancing at all that dancing is not about the sexual attractiveness. Personally, I can only give my opinion on the sexual component, because I am in a relationship and was never looking for a romantic partner within the dance scene. What I discovered during social dancing is, that you can feel quite comfortable with another guy, without developing romantic feelings.

To most of the people I am not attracted in a particular way. But dances with them can be relaxing, a lot of fun or even awesome! Cannot agree with you more. Me and my wife started taking dance lessons to keep the spark alive between us in a different way. Over time she lost interest and I just could not get enough of it. As of today, I continue to attend classes and enjoy social dancing. The goal during every dance is to make my partner comfortable and enjoy those minutes of the song.

A partner that is happy at the end of the dance is the right Happy Ending for me :. This is a very female-centric pov. Specifically, the first sentence. They go to try to hook up. They usually want to get good enough to be able to impress enough so that they have a better chance at hooking up.

But that assumes that people dance well. Would you say that a majority of male social dancers dance well? And unlike a real bar, they get to actually touch a real woman the whole time without being rejected! I would not be so sanguine about it from the MALE perspective. The level of the le depends a lot on the scene and the locale.

However, if you go to a dance SOCIAL in a studio, event or dance hall setting, most of the people are there for the dance and are experienced dancers. I agree a powerful motivation for men to start dance is the prospect of being around women — but it seems to me that the men who stick around have additional motivations. Laura Riva is right… when I first started dance, the appeal was to be around women. Sure I enjoy a good run, heavy bag work, or a weightlifting session. In addition, the male competitive drive kicked in: I now continuously push myself because I want to impress my partner as well as those around me.

So community may play the biggest role in this? The teachers here have worked hard to bake those attitudes into the community from the start. Versus many communities that are competitive and maybe better described as… narcissistic? So given this environment, anyone coming in just for the sex would stick out like a sore thumb, and is pushed out in short order. Which is why the generalizations in this article feel naive, and why there seems to be such a disconnect from what I see to what was written. I also will say that congresses and festivals are so good BECAUSE a lot more of the people are really about the dance and not ulterior motives.

Most of my best dance experiences have been the congresses and festivals. Most social dance scenes are not built around clubs. Actually, the article says that there are many. I know men — I am one. We are all dogs to some degree. Some worse than others, but we all are. Any man that claims that sex with at least some if not many or even all of the women they dance with never enters their minds are lying. I think all men are thinking of sex when dancing and I think probably most women are not.

Dance mimics the sexual act and both men and women love sex. I think dance is sexual for every one — consciously to men and unconsciously for at least most women. I think dance is primal and undeniably sexual. I think the evidence backs me up. Speaking from the Jung point of view, where; depending on where we live the majority of our lives, if those who are the most artistic are honest and true with themselves above all else, then they can honestly answer that yes, dancing is a sexual and sensual activity,important to their daily creative, thoght provoking, inspiring, nuturing personal growth.

It is healthy and important to the very core of the human existence. To be able to fall in love with your dance partner, that you realize you love her or him beyond sexual attraction is to reach a maturity level that takes one to a spiritual place far higher than than most yoga lessons will ever take you. Being a responsible, Master of Your Domain will serve you well on life, but especially on the dance floor.

It is what give the flavour. What is social dancing anyways? To socialize right? I mean what else u like about the dance? If u want that u would do ballet. And u can start at adult too. There are many African dances that have that element of community in it without touching each other. What is connection anyways? Why do you do it? Just my 2cents and trying to be real. The thing is… I Zouk with all my same-gendered friends too.

My primary motivation to dance has never been to hold another person close.

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It simply needs to be wanting to reach out to other humans. You can connect with family, friends, siblings, romantic partners, and even strangers. Most of the human connections we have are not sexual in nature! In some cultures there is nothing remotely sexual about a woman walking around topless. Different things mean different things to different people.

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When I first started social dancing I made the same assumption about bachata that you made about zouk. To an outside spectator it had the same appearance as a couple of people grinding on each other at a club. There are a lot of reasons someone might choose a dance style. It adds several elements to the dance that you simply will never have when you are dancing solo.

I disagree with you. I do love zouk. And so far there have only been two men I could possibly be attracted to but want neither. And I dance with both sees and never have been turned on. For meespecially in zouk, there is noting at all I want but to be carried away by the music.

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